ItÂ's rare that people have such good relationship karma
that they truly (without any self-deception) have a solid,
happy, fulfilling, compatible, monogamous, life-long
relationship.There are many couples who stay together for years
and years, but that doesnÂ't mean the relationship is or has
always been compatible or harmonious. ItÂ's very common
for couples to stay together and turn into roommates with
wedding rings because they fear being alone, having less
money, or for other reasons.Love is forever, but most relationships are not. By this
we mean that love is the glue that draws people together
again and again throughout lifetimes. Couples usually
meet again primarily, from a spiritual perspective, for
learning lessons and personal growth instead of just for
romance and companionship. When those lessons are
fulfilled, it may be time to move on.However, in our society, great emphasis is placed upon
relationship longevity. A relationship or marriage is
considered to have Â"failedÂ" if it didnÂ't last a lifetime.
This way of thinking not only sets everyone up for
disappointment, but is unrealistic.Nobody expects their first job out of high school or
college to last forever, or that every friendship will
never end, and dropping such expectations for love
relationships is wise, in our opinion. Everyone changes
and grows at different rates and has different lessons to
learn. You canÂ't cast someone for a relationship theatrical
production and expect them to fit comfortably into that
role for a lifetime.Sometimes people are meant to be single for a while for
some reason other than it just being about bad relationship
karma.Your life circumstances are reflected in your
numerological and astrological timing, which is
different for everyone. Sometimes youÂ'll have rewarding
love timing, meaning more fulfilling and compatible
relationships, and sometimes you wonÂ't, and some people
have much more of it than others throughout their lives.
If you donÂ't like the way things are going now, theyÂ'll
eventually change. If you are curious about when your
love timing will get better, comprehensive numerology
and astrology offer tremendous insight.Our unique delineation and prediction work tell us that
relationships, and how long they last, are destined. WeÂ're
referring to the energy between two people that makes
them fascinated with one another and when the appeal
(sexual and otherwise) is still there months and years
later, as it was in the initial stages of the connection, not
the type of relationship where two people know that itÂ's
Â"over,Â" but stay together anyway.Therefore, itÂ's best to try to let go of expectations for
Â"permanenceÂ" when becoming involved in a relationship
and just accept the situation for what and how long it
is meant to be. This doesnÂ't mean you shouldnÂ't try to
work out problems (since working out problems is a
major reason why youÂ're together in the first place), just
that itÂ's better to go with the flow.What about some Â"expertsÂ" telling you that you can
have a life-long relationship and that all you have to
do is keep it Â"newÂ" and Â"fresh?Â" Yes, perhaps some
of these techniques can help renew an already relatively
strong connection, but they wonÂ't revive something
thatÂ's dead or inspire what was never there in the first
place.It may be difficult, but try to be grateful for the time
youÂ've spent with compatible matches in the past,
what youÂ've learned from the more challenging
relationships youÂ've had, and perhaps most important,
the benefits of alone time when youÂ're not in a relationship.
Expressing gratitude has a magical way of helping to let go
of the past and welcoming more positive experiences into
the present.Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo
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